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Choosing a home

How to choose an aged care home, step by step

Nine steps from the first assessment to the first weeks after moving in, with what to do at each one and what to watch for.

Last reviewed October 2026. General information, checked against official sources.

How do I choose an aged care home?

Start with the free government aged care needs assessment. Then agree who is making the decision, write down what matters most (care needs, location, culture, budget), build a shortlist on My Aged Care using the Star Ratings, ring homes about rooms and prices, and tour two or three with a checklist. Start the means assessment early, and read the agreements before anything is signed. The person moving in stays at the centre of every step.

The short version

  • Nothing can be confirmed until the aged care needs assessment approves residential care, so request it first.
  • The person moving in makes the decision if they can. If they can't, only someone with legal authority can decide for them.
  • Use the Star Ratings and published room prices to shortlist, then judge each home on a tour.
  • Start the means assessment with Services Australia early: it decides the fees on top of the room.
  • Read every agreement before signing. A home can't ask you to choose how to pay for the room before moving in.
  1. Get the aged care needs assessment

    An aged care home can only offer a permanent room once the government's aged care needs assessment (still often called ACAT) has approved residential care. Request it through My Aged Care (the Australian Government's aged care service, 1800 200 422) online or by phone. It is free. If the person is in hospital, the hospital usually arranges it.

    You can start looking at homes while you wait. Just don't expect a home to confirm a room until the approval arrives. The outcome letter includes referral codes you give to the home you choose. See the aged care assessment, explained.

    Source: My Aged Care: assessment outcome for an aged care home

  2. Agree who decides

    The person moving in has the right to make decisions about their own life, with support if they need it, and to have those decisions respected. That right is set out in the Statement of Rights in the Aged Care Act 2024. Adults are presumed to be able to make their own decisions unless shown otherwise, and capacity can differ from one decision to the next.

    If the person cannot make this decision, someone with legal authority makes it: in Victoria, an attorney appointed for personal matters under an enduring power of attorney, or a guardian appointed by VCAT. Being next of kin does not, by itself, give anyone that authority. If nobody holds it, talk to the hospital social worker or the Office of the Public Advocate before anything is signed.

    It helps to agree early, as a family, who is doing what: who rings homes, who tours, who handles the paperwork. See who decides when a parent can't.

    Source: Victorian Department of Health: decision making for older people

  3. Write down what matters

    Before you look at a single home, agree on a short list of must-haves and nice-to-haves with the person moving in. It keeps every later conversation focused.

    • Care needs: memory support or a secure area, nursing for complex health conditions, palliative care, help with mobility or swallowing.
    • Location: who will visit, how often, and how they will get there.
    • Culture, language and faith: staff who speak the person's language, food, religious practice, community.
    • The room: single or shared, own bathroom, a garden outlook, space for a favourite chair.
    • People: a partner who wants to move in too, a pet, friends already living somewhere.
    • Budget: what the room prices in the area are, and roughly what the fees will be. See what aged care costs.
  4. Start the means assessment early

    What a person pays on top of the room and the basic daily fee depends on Services Australia's assessment of their income and assets. Without it, a home can ask for the maximum fees until the caps are reached.

    • People who don't get an income support payment from Services Australia or the Department of Veterans' Affairs apply online or with form SA457.
    • People who get a relevant income support payment and own their home tell Services Australia about the home (online, or with form SA485). If they don't own a home, they usually don't need to apply, but should make sure their details are up to date.

    Services Australia's Aged Care line is 1800 227 475 (Monday to Friday, 8am to 5pm). See the means test, step by step.

    Source: Services Australia: who should apply for an aged care calculation of your cost of care

  5. Build a shortlist

    My Aged Care's Find a provider tool lists every government-funded aged care home. Search the area, filter for the care you need, and shortlist up to 16 homes. For each home, note:

    Our city pages list the homes in our data sorted by government Star Rating, starting with aged care homes in Melbourne. Hospital social workers and GPs often know local homes well, too.

    Source: My Aged Care: how to choose a provider

  6. Ring the homes

    A short phone call saves wasted tours. Ask each home:

    • Is a room that suits likely to be free soon? How long do people usually wait for this kind of room?
    • Can you meet these care needs (be specific)?
    • What are the published prices for the rooms that would suit?
    • Do you offer respite, in case a short stay helps while we wait?
    • When can we visit, ideally around lunchtime?

    Expect most homes to be close to full: metropolitan homes ran at 96.1% occupancy of their available beds in the March 2026 quarter (StewartBrown survey). Keep several homes in play rather than waiting on one.

    Source: StewartBrown Aged Care Financial Performance Survey, March 2026 (year to date)

  7. Tour two or three homes

    Visit at a mealtime if you can, and take the person who will live there if they are able. Look before you ask: how staff speak to residents, the smell, the noise, and whether people are up and doing things. Then work through the questions on staffing, care minutes, food, dementia care, fees and family life.

    Our aged care tour checklist has every question grouped and printable, including questions to ask about each weak Star Rating sub-rating.

  8. Compare, decide, and read before you sign

    Compare the homes on the same few things while they are fresh: ratings, how staff treated residents, food, the room, the price, and travel time for the people who will visit. Then talk it through with the person moving in. Their view comes first.

    When a home offers a room, ask for the resident agreement and the accommodation agreement to read before anything is signed. Things to know:

    • The agreed room price can't be more than the price the home publishes.
    • A home can't ask you to choose how to pay for the room (a lump sum, a daily payment or a mix) before moving in. For people entering care from 1 November 2025, the room is charged as a daily payment until any lump sum is paid, and a lump sum can be paid any time after entry once the means assessment is finalised.
    • Higher everyday living fees (optional extra services) are optional: they can't be a condition of entry, can't be agreed before you move in, and have a cooling-off period.
    • A home can charge a pre-entry fee to hold a room for up to 7 days before the person moves in.

    For decisions about how to pay, talk to a licensed financial adviser or Services Australia's Financial Information Service (132 300), and consider asking a lawyer to read the agreements. See RAD or DAP for how the payment options work.

    Sources: My Aged Care: understanding aged care home accommodation costs; My Aged Care: short-term care costs and fees

  9. Move in, and the first weeks

    Label clothes, choose a few familiar things from home, and plan to be there on the first day if you can. Ask who the key contact is, and when the care plan will be written and reviewed with you.

    The first weeks are often the hardest. Visit regularly, write down questions as they come up, and raise concerns early with the home. If something is not resolved, see how to make an aged care complaint.

If a hospital wants a discharge date

The steps are the same, but compressed. The hospital usually arranges the assessment quickly: the Victorian median for hospital assessments was 1 day in January to March 2026. Ask the social worker or discharge planner about transition care (up to 12 weeks of short-term care after a hospital stay, extendable by up to 6) and residential respite as a bridge while you find the right permanent home. See hospital discharge and urgent help.

Sources: My Aged Care: transition care; Victorian Department of Health: My Aged Care assessment services

Red flags along the way

  • Pressure to sign or pay on the day of a tour.
  • A home that won't give you the agreements to read before you decide.
  • Optional extra fees presented as a condition of getting a room.
  • A request to choose how to pay for the room before moving in.
  • Vague answers about staffing, care minutes or the latest audit.
  • Anyone other than the person, or someone with legal authority for them, making the decision.

Questions families ask

How long does it take to find an aged care home?

It varies a lot by area, room type and how urgent things are. The national median time from a My Aged Care application to entering permanent residential care was 138 days in April to June 2026, and that includes the wait for the assessment. Metropolitan homes are close to full most of the time, so having more than one suitable home in mind helps.

Who chooses the aged care home?

The person moving in, if they can make the decision, with whatever support they need. Families help, but they don't automatically have the right to decide. If the person can't make the decision, someone with legal authority does, such as an attorney appointed for personal matters under an enduring power of attorney, or a guardian appointed by a tribunal.

Do we need a power of attorney to choose a home?

Not if the person can decide for themselves. If they can't, someone needs legal authority to make and sign decisions for them, and being "next of kin" is not enough on its own. It is far easier to set up an enduring power of attorney while the person can still make one. See enduring power of attorney.

Can the hospital make us take the first room offered?

We have not found a published Victorian rule requiring a family to accept the first room offered, but hospitals do need beds and the pressure can be real. Ask the hospital for its policy in writing, ask whether transition care or respite could bridge the gap, and keep looking for a home that suits. Free advocacy is available from OPAN on 1800 700 600.

Can an aged care home refuse someone?

Yes. Each home decides who it offers a room to, based on whether it can meet the person's care needs and has a suitable room. That is one reason to keep more than one home on your list.

Should we use a placement service?

Many families manage with the free government help: My Aged Care (1800 200 422) for assessments and home searches, and Services Australia's Financial Information Service (132 300) for costs. Some placement services are free to families because aged care homes pay them a commission when someone moves in; others, like us, are paid by families. Whoever you use, ask how they are paid.

What if Mum doesn't want to move?

If she can make the decision, it is hers to make, and her right to make it is protected under the Aged Care Act. Talk through what worries her, look at more help at home, or try a respite stay first. If you are worried about her safety, talk to her GP. The Older Persons Advocacy Network (1800 700 600) can help everyone talk it through.

Sources

Last reviewed October 2026. We checked this guide against the official pages below. Rules and figures change, so check the source before you rely on a detail.

This is general information, not legal, financial or medical advice. Best Aged Care is a private placement service run by Boring Ventures Pty Ltd, not part of or acting for the Australian Government or My Aged Care. How we check our facts.

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